RELATIONSHIP TUESDAY: Take Responsibility

It’s not always easy to admit when we’re wrong, or when we misunderstand - but when we do (because we can) it will present healthier communication.

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Image: Soft purple background with a quote by John M. Gottman: Taking responsibility – even for a small part of the problem in communication – presents the opportunity for great repair.

RELATIONSHIP TUESDAY: Ruminating

It's easy to assume how our partner might respond to things. We decide in our minds what they'll say before they've had a chance to enter the moment. But their words and decisions are not our choices; only ours are.

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Image: Soft purple background with a quote by Nedra Glover Tawwab: Focusing on how others might respond is one way we ruminate, which impacts our ability to act.

RELATIONSHIP TUESDAY: Zip It

Well, this might sting - but it's wise advice.

#RelationshipTuesday #ShutUp #Wrong #Right #Communication #TheRelationshipClinic #WLC

Image: Soft purple background with a quote from Dr. John Gottman: Admit when you're wrong. Shut up when you're right.

RELATIONSHIP TUESDAY: Under Construction

It's good to pull up our sleeves and dig in every now and then. Address those potholes. Identify the cause and location, and work to refill them. Not all rides are perfectly smooth - but they can be less bumpy.

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Image: Grey background with a quote by Carroll Bryant: Love is a two-way street constantly under construction.